Tuesday, August 19, 2014

Why Freshman Year is Rough, and Other Thoughts on Meaning and Life

Thousands of people are crammed into a stadium, brimming with nervous energy. Each person looks around, first at the people around them, and then at their new surroundings. Fear and a dash of excitement rushes through each individual. After what seems like hours of inspirational speeches, the people are finally released and proceed to stampede through their new territory, jittery with nerves and a fear of uncertainty. Is this a football game? Nope, it’s what every freshman and upperclassman dreads-Freshman Orientation Week.
 Let’s face it, no one likes college orientation week! The poor freshmen are bombarded by lectures, speeches, and too much information about college life to absorb-as if they weren't nervous enough. And while the freshmen’s worlds are being turned upside down with the fear of a new beginning and an uncertain future, the upperclassmen are surrounded by jumpy, awkward people who, in turn, throw off the balance of the upperclassmen’s well-kept home away from home.  And let’s not forget the poor administrators and professors, who have double the amount of paper work to complete and a long list of names to learn before classes begin.
It is in this atmosphere that I find myself in as I begin my sophomore year at Stetson. In fact, as I’m writing this blog entry in my lovely new dorm room, I can hear the nervous chatter pouring out of the new students’ mouths. Honestly, I sympathize with them. My first semester of college was terrifying for me, especially being the introvert that I am. I was uprooted from my cozy home of 18 years and had miles placed between myself and my family/closest friends, and on top of all that I was expected to automatically adjust to a world where everyone seems to either party, study, or sleep. Uncertainty filled my mind constantly. What should my major be? Will I make friends quickly? Is my roommate going to be nice (Update: She is!)? Will I find a job? How will my faith life hold up in this new environment? The list goes on and on.
But this uncertainty isn't simply a college struggle. We've all gone through that first day in a new town or in job training where everything seems upside down. Luckily for us, humans have this fantastic ability to adjust quickly to the most absurd and bizarre situations (I’m pointing at you, college life!). But as we are adjusting it feels like hell. Our minds race a million miles an hour, our hearts beat out of their chests, adrenaline flows, fears settle in.
I am learning as I grow older that uncertainty is just another fact of life, and humanity is the only species on Earth that seems to be unable to reconcile itself to this notion. Not just in everyday life, but in metaphysical ways as well. All of humanity is trying to find a meaning to this miracle we call life and erase the uncertainty of death and evil. As my favorite singer, Jon Foreman of Switchfoot, puts it, “We’re looking for the rhyme and reason.” Inside all of us is this unquenchable desire for purpose and certainty. Yet as we look around at life, all we see is uncertainty in our work, grades, jobs, and friendships and frankly, that freaks us out.
To get rid of the anxiety and uncertainty, some people busy their lives up so much that they can almost successfully avoid thinking about these metaphysical questions. Other people throw their hands up and state that there is no higher meaning to our random, chance existence in this universe. Still others search their entire lives for a higher Being, or beings, who can give our lives and this universe meaning and purpose. Yet two things remains constant for us all, no matter our beliefs: We desperately want a purpose for this life, and we must come to terms with the fact that not every answer can have 100%, without a shadow of a doubt, certainty. And that’s where faith comes in to play.
You and I live by faith every day, whether we acknowledge it or not. Atheists, theists, agnostics, deists-we all think that our philosophy of life is best, but when it comes down to it, we all have faith that we are correct. Let me put it this way: If there was 100% scientific evidence that God does or does not exist, or that there is inherent meaning to this life outside of our own fabrications, then nearly everyone would be in agreement about these issues, just like we all agree that gravity exists and that water is good for you. There would be no need for existentialism, metaphysics, nihilism, theism, and the many other branches of philosophical thought. But this isn't the case, and I don’t believe it will ever will be. Meaning, love, and hope are not facts, like 1+1=2, but rather are intellectual and heartfelt choices of faith.
Some of you may be saying, “Well, certainly there is more evidence for some types of faith over other types.” And to that I would say you are absolutely right-probability and evidence play huge roles in what each one of us believes in. I think that some beliefs have more evidence and a much higher probability of being correct than others. But that’s not the point. The point is that you can never erase all of the doubts for everyone forever, and that is where faith steps in.
With all of its joys and pains, life is the embodiment of uncertainty. But I also believe that life, with all of its uncertainty, is simply a quest to find out the answers to these all-encompassing questions. To find truth, meaning, something for us to hold onto as we live our day to day lives with love for one another. So to myself and to you: Keep on seeking. Ask the hard questions. Humble yourself enough to talk to those who have lived a bit longer on this Earth than you. You are never too old to learn a new piece of truth. But even if the answers to these hard questions seem to slip away from you for a time, never give up. Fight as if your life’s meaning depends on it, because it does. Despite all of the doubts and struggles, faith is perhaps the most beautiful and misunderstood expression of understanding- fight for it.





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